Our Engagement Story

Last weekend, Jeff and I got engaged.  On February 14th - Jeff officially proposed and I finally got my bling bling!  :-)  I'm loving it.  Obviously it is a little anti-climactic since I'm already pregnant, but I'm still SO SO SO happy.  

Some of you have asked how it happened so here are the who what where when etc. of the special night.

Who:  Jeff, me, Jacob (Jeff's best friend), Katie (Jacob's girlfriend)

What:  Engagement night

Where:  Pier 39, San Francisco, CA

When:  Around 7:30ish - Sat, 2/14/09

Why:  Duh.

Full story:

We had a double date planned for Valentine's day.  We were going to play and frolic around the city with Jake and Katie.  We picked up Jake and Katie from their hotel and Jeff told me that him and Jake needed to be dropped off on Market St. because Jake forgot to get Katie a gift.  SO, I say okay - coo...I'll play it off and pretend like I don't know what's going on.

So all of a sudden we're rolling down on Market Street, and Jake and Jeff go, OK - girls go get your nails done or something I'll call you when we're done.  So Katie and I are obviously wondering what's going on and I supposedly 'know' that Jake forgot to get Katie a gift so I play it off and say, "Jeff probably didn't get me anything - so he's running to grab something for me real quick."  Katie asked me, "Oh does he procrastinate a lot or something?" I said, "Girrrrlll, we've been together for almost 7 years and he hasn't proposed yet...if that isn't procrastination, I don't know what is."

Little did I know - the ENTIRE time...Katie knew that this was the moment where Jeff was actually picking up my engagement ring from the jewelers.  I had been double-crossed....but I had no idea.

So the day continues on, we picked Jeff and Jacob back up from market street and make our way to the pier.  We have a great dinner at the Fog Harbor Fish House - service was a littttle whack, but overall it was a good dinner.  I had lobster, calamari, shrimp cocktail, bread, veggies, potatoes and some 7up.  Pretty good.  We wrap up dinner and head back toward the main pier.  Jeff says we should all walk down the pier and Jacob and Katie say they want to find a bathroom first.  So Jeff and I walk ahead down the pier and pull over almost towards the end into this little divot/lookout point.  We walked arm in arm or hand in hand maybe then stood in each others' embrace at the lookout point.  

Jeff said, "You know, I really meant everything I said in your Valentine's Day card... I couldn't do anything without you - I love you so much"  So we hug, kiss, make out, and just look out and talk for another few minutes.  Then Jeff looks over my shoulder and says, "Do you see that over there?  is that something else we could do while we're out here."  Not expecting anything, I turn around and take a look at what he's saying and when I turn back around - Jeff is on his knees with ring in hand open in a nice little box and says, "Will you marry me."  Obviously, as tears roll down my face I said, "YES!  Of course I will..."  and so the night went on we ended up going to a bar to 'celebrate' so they all drank and I had water...LOL then we went back to Jacob and Katie's room in this crazy part of the city called the Tenderloin.  We change and head out to the Fusion bar and lounge a couple blocks away.  Jeff and I aren't really into that scene - well not anymore anyway - so we called it a night around midnight and went back to our place back in Sunnyvale.

Great night, and now - a wedding to plan on top of planning for the arrival of Braiden.  Whew....what a year and a half of my life this is going to be.  

Belly pics and my blog about being 20 weeks prego to come shortly - must get laundry and clean upstairs first.  :)

Love,

Val

It's a BOY!

This morning we found out that it's a B O Y!  

Since Jeff and I are crazy - and have been together forever and talked about our family/this day since we were still teenagers, we've already picked out a name.

Braiden Michael Bartlett.

So, I can't wait for you all to meet him!

Love,

Mama Val

Belly Photo at 19 Weeks and 2 Days

Here is my belly at 19 weeks and 2 days along.  As you can see I now have some BLING BLING on my left hand - Jeff proposed on Valentine's day... I'm off to go get ready for my girlfriend's BDAY celebration but will update everything soon.

Love,

Val & Braiden

Tuesday, February 17th!

Hello everyone!

On Tuesday, February 17th, Jeff and I will find out the gender of our Baby Bartlett :) We are so thrilled and excited to finally figure this out so that we can stop calling the baby "it" or "the baby." Since we already ahve names picked out, it'll be so much fun to start calling the baby his/her name.

We will start putting headphones with classical music onto the baby at 20 weeks which is next Friday!!

Every Friday I am another week along, and the exciting benchmark is that next week is the halfway mark. There happens to be a misconception that pregnancy is only 9 months, but I learned that it is actually 10 months.

I promise to have belly pics every week from this week till the end of my pregnancy so you can see my progress.... stay tuned for the outcome of the ultrasound and for finalized baby shower dates in your area :) (SF Bay Area, Sacramento, or Los Angeles) it sounds pretty diva, but it's just practical so that I can share my experience and happiness with all of you!

OK..off to work.

<3 Val & Baby

Fake Out!

My OB has done an ultrasound at each appointment. Today, when I went in, we only listened to the heartbeat!!! Here I was excited as heck to find out the gender, and kablaaam...we're going to have to wait till February 17th to find out the gender of the baby. It was still cool to hear the heartbeat.. my vitals are good, I'm 100/66 on blood pressure, and my pee looks good...nothing alarming found in it and i weigh.... 136 pounds!! HOLY SHEIZER.

Ok... off to eat... again. <3

Out of the bella bands...into full on maternity gear

I just finished up at Andrea's happy hour for her bday. It was fun but obviously challenging cuz what is a preggo girl to do at a happy hour. Luckily there were fries for me :) and also risotto balls...appetizing...absolutely. My aversion to chicken is really starting to make me angry, because chicken is good lean meat for your body. Today, my coworkers and I also went out to lunch to celebrate Andrea's bday and I really wanted to get the chiccken teriyaki, but I decided against it becuase I really can't stand the sight/smell/taste of chicken...unless it's fried..or it has boston market on its packaging.

I forgot to upload one of my favorite pregnancy pictures so far since I have it on Facebook..but i realize some people that read this don't have a facebook account (MOM AND DAD!!) hahahaa it's good that you dont though... 143!

I just love how bone is cupping my belly. It's been so great to have the love and support from all of my family, friends, and especially my work. I have my bella band on today and it is looking like it's not going to be cutting it for that much longer...I'll see what I can do about getting a couple of pairs of decent maternity jeans. It's so expensive!!!! But hey, worth the investment cuz I'm sure this one won't be our last. Well...it's almost time to hop off of the train so me and baby are going to call it a night...off to Seattle for business tomorrow with a 6:30am flight -- YIKES!!! baby is already taking after mama...down to business right away LOL

LOVE,
Val & Baby Bartlett

4 Months!!!

This is my - what I love most and what I like least about being pregnant post.  

What I like least (I always like the bad first):

• breaking out (hormones)
• craving all sorts of sour, fatty, and sweet things
• lacking energy to work out
• getting bigger and not having as many choices for things to wear
• maternity clothes being SO expensive
• feeling breathless so quickly
• people I don't really know touching my belly
• getting my blood drawn a lot

What I <3

• everything not listed above
• feeling the baby move
• seeing the ultrasound 
• being consistently amazed that I have a BABY in me
• looking at maternity items
• looking at nursery/baby items
• anticipating the next day, week, month, and year - where I will have the chance to experience all sorts of firsts :) (first movement, first kick, first contraction...etc)
• the love and support from Jeff, family, and friends
• thinking about my FAMILY - because it's going to be real!
• people I love rubbing my belly/talking to the baby
• continually challenging myself to be the best mom (making sure to stay on top of everything - even if it means sleeping on my left side or doing crossword and sudoku to keep my brain sharp)

I have been looking at TONS of maternity things and things for the baby and I am just so excited.  I want some ridiculous things - like a Kate Spade or Burberry Diaper bag...and I've also seen a juicy couture stroller/lacoste stroller... but as cute as those things are, I am being realistic about what I can afford and what we need.  :)

There are all sorts of questions for when the baby comes...at times it is overwhelming but I know that everything will be okay in the end.  I feel the baby move all the time now..little flutters and bubbles in my tummy all day long.  It is so exciting, but I am obviously exhausted.  

Until next time.

<3>

Daddy Bartlett feels Baby Bartlett

Last night, Jeff felt the baby move for the first time. I laid down while we were watching TV and had him put his hand over my belly. After 10-15 minutes of his hand being on the lower left of my abdomen, he felt twitch-like movements on my belly and felt the baby move for the first time!

It was so wonderful that he got to feel the baby! :-) The baby moved a lot, especially when I was eating my chilled canned peaches, and earlier today while i was drinking cold water....I can already tell it's a summer baby (and hates the cold!)

So excited for July to come around!

<3 Val

First Baby Movement!

Two days ago, I felt the baby move for the first time!!! I was helping Jeff with his math homework on Friday night and I felt these weird bubbles in my stomach. It wasn't like gas, it wasn't like a growling stomach...it was the BABY. It was crazy. It was so weird. Then on Saturday morning when I was laying on my left side, I felt a poke. I wish I would feel these more often, but just knowing that the baby is alive and well and fluttering/kicking/moving inside of me is phenomenal. I'm so excited to be a mom!!

<3 Val

15 Weeks Today! - and my belly is getting bigger!

I haven't been nauseous in awhile and I also haven't had any migraines or headaches...KNOCK ON WOOD. I'm really loving my job right now, even though the goals are really really high and it's lots and lots of work...I love that I am always busy and always working to help the growth and success of our company.

I took a picture this morning for Jessica (Jesser/Yoder) and I sent it to her and my dad, and they think I look huge for being 3 mos and 3 weeks. Today marks week 15!!! I'm so excited. I can't believe there's a 'lil one in me... and what I'm really excited about is getting to feel the baby move and finding out the gender.



Our next prenatal is February 5th and our ultrasound to figure out the gender will be on February 17th! That same week I have to get my blood drawn, but like I said last time, I'll do anything for the baby.

Jeff got me an 80 minute (yes 1 and a 1/2 hours) prenatal massage at the spa at his gym! I am so so so so so so excited for it! The gift certificate that grandma got me for Christmas was for a spa in Sacramento so I'm going to have to make my way home for that sometime soon.

Here are the pics from my train ride this morning so you can see how big the tummers is and if I've gained any weight in my face.

With Love,
Val & Baby

From January 12th

Last Thursday before heading to LA for Berlyn’s wedding, I had a pregnancy first. It was the first time I had ever vomited from my pregnancy. It was disgusting. I felt my entire lunch come back up. I started to feel better once I showered and took a nap, but it was definitely a long drive.

My belly now measures 34.5” around the belly button, and I no longer fit into B-sized bras (as evidenced by the bra I attempted to purchase at Victoria’s Secret this weekend). My last weight at our last prenatal appointment was 129, so I’ve only gained two pounds.

I haven’t had any weird cravings, although I was really in the mood for salt & vinegar chips last night. I settled for the thought of a block of cheddar cheese, but to my disappointment, there was a spot of mold on the block, so I threw it all out.

Jeff and I had a fantastic weekend in Southern California. It was a wondrous 85 degrees and it’s January. I want to go back there so badly! Hopefully Jeff will end up at USC or UCSD or SDSU and we’ll be able to move back there.

Berlyn and Sal’s wedding was magnificent. B looked so beautiful and she was all smiles, all night long. I can’t even begin to tell you how crazy it is to think of where they started and where they are today.

I tried to dance at the reception but I was winded pretty easily. It must have been the second or third song in and I was already in need of a break. I definitely felt some impediment on my movement, but overall I still had a really, really good time. I obviously played DD for the night and took everyone back home from the wedding to the hotel. It was only a 3 mile drive so it wasn’t a big deal.

It was a jam-packed weekend, so I’ll likely be resting come Friday…but man it was AMAZING. This week the baby is able to make facial expressions!! I finally made my public announcement on Facebook and I couldn’t be any more glad to get it out in th open <3.

That’s it for now. Until next time…

<3 Val & Baby

Hairy & Tired

Jeff and I had our second prenatal appointment yesterday. It was quick and easy. The doctor took all my vitals, and then did another ultrasound. The baby looks great, it's got a big ol' head (which is probably mine, since Jeff's head is pretty small). The legs of baby were still really small but we could see the arm full and clear. It's still too early to know what the gender is, but we'll be going in for that ultrasound on February 17th!! I'm so very excited. I also have to get some more bloodwork done during my 16th or 17th week for prescreening for down's syndrome and neural tube defects etc. I hate getting my blood drawn, but obviously anything for the baby. :)

I noticed at the doctor's appointment that I have a LOT of hair on my belly now! How crazy is that. I was talking to Christa when we were home last and she was saying that she got a little bit hairier too, in fact, she had sideburns, but she said it all went away. It is just so weird to see my body changing.

I'm pretty emotional. I feel like crying a lot and I am very, very, very exhausted after work and my commute. I know that in time everything will get better, but I am so excited that everything is going well so far.

I haven't gotten around to finalizing the details for the Babymoon, but I am really looking forward to it. Our next big date night is going to be at the Sharks game on March 28th...Grandpa got us tickets for Christmas. <3 Well.....off to help Jeff with his schoolwork.

Night!!

Kisses & Love,
Valerie & Baby Bartlett

Babymoon!!!

Today, I signed up for thebump.com.  It is theknot.com's version of getting ready for pregnancy.  ON their weekly checklist, they suggested planning a Babymoon!  How exciting.  Since we already have a lot of things on our plate financially, Jeff and I are thinking about a little weekend getaway to Carmel, Monterey, Napa, Calistoga, or Santa Cruz.  I know that it's just another thing to think about in the grand scheme of things, but I think that it will be such a great little get away for us.  My goal for our family is to make it to a cruise and go to Disneyland before the baby turns 5.  :)  As I get further along in planning the babymoon, I'll keep you updated.  We'll likely be going mid second trimester.  So in or around 24 weeks.  Hope everyone had a GREAT New Year's celebration and I wish you all the best in 2009!

Love,

Val & baby Bartlett  <3

Baby Bartlett

A Fresh Start

It's been way too long since my last blog, so I've decided to start anew. The best thing about this new blog is that I'm starting at the 10th week of my pregnancy. :) On November 12th, Jeff and I found out that I was pregnant and it's been a whirlwind since then.

We had our first prenatal appointment with our amazing OB - Dr. Ecklund, on December 8th, 2008. We had our first ultrasound and as you can see it is such an amazing thing. We heard the baby's heartbeat and even saw the baby's hands moving back and forth.


We picked out names when we were 18 (assuming that we would be sharing the rest of our lives together), so if the baby is a boy, he will be Braiden Michael Vinco Bartlett; and if the baby is a girl she will be Mia Victoria Vinco Bartlett.

Pregnancy is a beautiful thing and I cannot wait to enjoy every minute of it. My official due date is July 10, 2009 so the baby will likely be a Cancer. Ironically, Jeff and some of his closest friends are born in July, so it's a good sign to have I suppose.

I haven't been as nauseous as of late, but this morning was bad for me. Right between 9:30 and 10:30 I really felt sick for some reason. Jeff is on break from his school and is also currently between jobs, so he was at home cleaning all day...it was WONDERFUL.

I'll keep this updated as often as possible with new developments. For now, I've picked up Bella Bands, which allow you to wear all your pre-maternity jeans with a band that converts them to maternity pants, my prenatal vitamins to hit my daily intake for iron, folic acid, calcium, etc. for the baby's health and bone development, and we received a baby toy from one of Jeff's clients.

I'm anxiously awaiting the baby, but will definitely be enjoying my pregnancy! :)

Love,
Valerie